Does your sex life need a relationship reboot? No problem, my article in The Union can help. Many times people in long term relationships stop talking and listening to each other about what is and isn’t working sexually. If that’s you, you’re not alone. There’s a lot you can do to take the pressure off and enjoy intimacy in your relationship.
If it feels like Groundhog Day in your relationship, you are not alone. In fact, most couples struggle with repetitive problems. You can read my full article in The Union for ideas and strategies to navigate through your maddening “Groundhog Day” squabbles and lighten things up in your relationship.
Giving and receiving make all the difference in your relationship, especially during times of sickness, loss, or uncertainty. Are you good at doing both? Read my article in The Union for a few tips and inspiration to strengthen your bond of interdependence.
Relationships and travel; are there things you can do to have a better time with your partner on your next trip? You bet! Check out these six tips in my Relationships and Travel article in The Union and have a great time with your sweetie on your next adventure.
According to the work of Dr. David Schnarch, there are four key balance points for successful relationships. He calls them the Four Points of Balance. 1. Solid Flexible Self 2. Quiet Mind-Calm Heart 3. Grounded Responding and 4. Meaningful Endurance. Read my article in The Union to learn about these four touchpoints and how they can help improve the quality of your relationships.
Do you feel like you’re losing your partner to their device? Click to read my article in The Union to find out how to put your phones down and reach for each other instead. It may not be as bad as you think!
Do you give your marriage the care and tending needed to have a great relationship? Just like a fabulous Pinot Noir, an amazing marriage needs plenty of TLC. Click to read the article in The Union.
Relationship ups and downs are inevitable but these moments don’t have to turn into major issues. Read my article in The Union and learn to stay calm and steady your relationship.
Misinterpreting your partner’s relationship style can lead you into choppy waters. For smoother sailing in your relationship, check out my article in The Union, What’s Your Relationship Style? For more information, I recommend Wired For Love by Dr. Stan Tatkin.
Check out Five Ways to Give Your Relationship a Fresh Start by reading my article in The Union. You’ll see there are many ways to start again and bring out the best in yourself and your partner. On New Year’s Day, or any day, make a fresh start and start enjoying your relationship again.
Served on the Board of Directors of the California Association of Marriage and Family Therapists, Sierra Foothills Chapter
